It
was cooler on the river, but the conducted tour got off to a slow
start. All the palaces seemed to have belonged to the same man and the
architecture, at least from the outside, soon began to look like more
of the same. Although impressive enough, architecture was not our main
interest.
But
I was pleased about the guide. He pointed out the yellow markings on
the walls and explained that they were the high water level during a
particularly severe flood. It was impossible to imagine so much water.
How much of the town was submerged I asked? Almost all of it, was his
reply.
After traveling less than a quarter of a mile up stream
we then went downstream to see the 24hour burning ghats. Varinassi is
the place to die for Hindus, and definitely the place to be cremated.
The guide told us that the elderly and sick will, if at all possible,
travel from all over India to die here. The burning ghats on the banks
of the river Ganges are always very busy. We were asked not to take
photographs, at least in close up of the funeral parties.
We
returned to our starting point, disembarked and paid Rs20/- to the
boatman. Ben wanted a closer look at the pyres. So did I, I suppose, but
I hadn't said anything. We were directed up a short flight of steps and
emerged into a room directly overlooking the burning places. About five
funeral parties were taking place. From our vantage point we could see
the partially burned corpses. One of the corpses lay in an awkward pose
with his legs sprawled; another was mostly consumed by the fire but the
remains of his lower legs with his feet protruding struck me as
slightly comical.
How could I think this? There was dignity in
the families and this was an extremely holy and religious experience for
them. They were providing the perfect send off for their loved one. I
excused myself by deciding it was not comical but different; a
completely different culture, an openness with the rituals of death I
had never seen before. I had only lost one close relative, my
grandfather, and his cremation had taken place behind the scenes at the
local crematorium, after we had said our goodbyes and left - but in
essence the same, except here the families, at least some of them,
stayed until the end.
All around, on the steps, were bodies
tightly wrapped, ladies in coloured shrouds, men in plain shrouds.
While we watched another lady was carried on the back of a bicycle to
her pyre. Ben was tempted to take a photograph and some of the Indians
encouraged him, but we didn't think it was proper and we stopped him.
We left the room overlooking the ghats and were followed by our guide.
The guide wanted to show us many more temples, but we were not really
interested. No doubt we missed some really interesting places and
failed to learn about the history of the city that the guide could have
imparted. He did seem reasonably knowledgeable and genuine. He was
frustrated by our disinterest and tried to insist he could show us
great places. But we were ungrateful and eventually, angry and annoyed,
he left us. Looking back I am sorry we did not show more appreciation
or tip him a few rupees.
We stopped for some refreshment and then Jane and Ben headed back to
the hotel. I set off in search of a new pen and a book. I found a pen
but not a book. All the bookshops displayed the books in such a way as
to make it difficult to scan titles and find suitable holiday reading.
I walked for what seemed like a long way and having turned down a side
street soon got lost. After an age I eventually emerged onto a main
road, found a rickshaw and returned to the hotel.
The wind had started to blow strongly and it was soon raining heavily.
There were more power cuts but thankfully our hotel had its own,
working generator.